1) GlassFish server setting-->

https://glassfish.dev.java.net/

2) How to upload a file to server ->

From PC to server

http://www.devsphere.com/mapping/docs/guide/upload.html

http://www.appletcollection.com/java/fileupload.html

From Mobile to server

an open source sample of J2ME to upload file to server --> http://mobox.cliqcafe.com/